This summer has been filled with
more travel and family visiting than usual. I just returned from a camping trip
with most of my husband's extended family. It's difficult to express how
grateful I am for their willingness to sacrifice their own comfort to enable me
to gather with them. I'm truly thankful for their Christlike hearts and valiant
efforts to include me.
The trip was full of good family visiting times, but wasn't without its challenges. I had a significant chemical exposure (mosquito fogging) that introduced a new symptom to my list. Other challenges included an air conditioner that gave out during a traffic jam, a mix-up regarding a campsite reservation, a sick family member, and fearless skunks.
One challenge was quite unexpected
and involved the use of a campground pavilion. We were a large group and had
planned to gather under the shelter during our last day (a rainy one) to play
games and visit. The campground office said it was fine as long as there was no
other planned activity there.
Unfortunately, the campground office
isn't the only entity involved with the pavilion. As we eventually learned, a
group of volunteers (I believe they're called "Friends of the
Shelter") built the facility. As we also learned, they are quite
protective of it. We were confronted twice, at two different times during the
day, with volunteers who were evidently very unhappy that we were using their
building. I'm not sure I'll ever forget the sight of the second volunteer. He
stood watching us, with a red face and semi-balled fists, looking like he would
really like to hit someone. To be fair, he did eventually decide to be friendly
and at the end of the conversation said, "I'm not trying to run you
out," which at the beginning he seemed clearly to want to do.
It's hard to say exactly when the
conversation took a turn and became more positive. Perhaps it was the moment
when my husband asked simply, "So is this shelter just supposed to be for
the volunteers?" Maybe that's the
point where the gentleman remembered why the pavilion was built. Isn't a
shelter in a campground supposed to shelter campers? Isn't being "friends of the
shelter" a goal that's underneath the greater one of being friends of the
humans?
The encounters seemed ludicrous at
the time and still seem so as I write about them. I can't help but think,
however, how similar they are to the way many people with MCS experience the
church. Chemically sensitive people want to find shelter from life's storms and
wonder why they aren't welcome in churches that were theoretically built for
that purpose. They wonder how so many church members become "Friends of
the Church Building " (who focus on making it
more beautiful than healthy) rather than friends of people created in God's image
who just want to enter the building without getting sick.
I correspond with many fellow MCS
sufferers. One recently told me a familiar story of trying to communicate with
her pastor about creating a church environment that's safe for her and other
chemically sensitive members. She isn't making much progress. At one point she
wrote, "We are being made to feel like a bother for wanting to come to
church."
I think she summed it up well. Is
that the message the church really wants to send? It's bad enough to send that message to
chemically sensitive church members, but truly heartbreaking to send it to
seekers. When people develop MCS or any chronic illness, they tend to become
more open to spiritual realities and more hungry for spiritual truth. God is
surely not pleased if people hungry to know Him can't enter a Christian church
building because of the product choices others make.
Mark 11:15-17 tells this story:
When they arrived back in
Why was Jesus angry? I imagine there were a number of reasons. Surely
he was angry that commerce seemed to be taking precedence over spiritual
pursuits. He was undoubtedly also angry, however, that the activities going on
inside the building kept people who wanted to worship from being able to do so.
The temple was designed with a series of courtyards and some people were
allowed to go deeper into the complex than others were. Those who could simply
walk by the marketplace activity to enter another court weren't impeded by the
chaos. For those who could go no farther than the courtyard where the buying,
selling, and money changing was going on, however, worship was a significant
challenge. I imagine Jesus was angry that those who had no limitations on their
ability to worship put barriers in the way of those who did.
I understand and appreciate the need
to be stewards of and care for buildings, whether they’re campground pavilions
or churches. I pray, however, that we never forget why they were built. They're
for people.
2 comments:
Excellent article, Martha! I've shared the link on FB for others to read too :)
Thanks!
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